tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post7607812839222138525..comments2023-10-06T03:01:56.279-05:00Comments on Sadie, Sadie, Married Lady: BrokenSadiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970457532005085242noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-37240222994327462602011-10-22T09:21:05.164-05:002011-10-22T09:21:05.164-05:00I don't know - I think you can't get throu...I don't know - I think you can't get through the traumas of life and hold onto that dizzying "head over heels" sort of thing. I had it with my first marriage, but I think a more mature love, scars and all, is also a pretty wonderful thing.secret agent womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763879283931347382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-5942067914235949632011-10-21T00:32:05.110-05:002011-10-21T00:32:05.110-05:00I think I've commented on this ad nauseum. It...I think I've commented on this ad nauseum. It's natural that you have doubts and feel broken. I would think it unnatural if you DIDN'T. Having said that, you know how I feel about THOSE kinds of "oh, we're so fabulously in love" kinds of relationship. The "soul mates" thing doesn't work for me. I need someone who loves me, respects me, is loyal to me, Desert Songbirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14320552900816326120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-69912140977168094922011-10-20T19:02:14.275-05:002011-10-20T19:02:14.275-05:00I am sorry you are so my child, but it ain't a...I am sorry you are so my child, but it ain't all bad. I don't know how to tell you to feel any different, because I cannot. But, I am happy and I can make other people happy. Looking at a relationship realistically isn't such a bad deal, it can prevent some of the highs, but it also avoids some of the lows. I love you.The Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09935681244668317027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-71414041306935137862011-10-20T08:55:10.637-05:002011-10-20T08:55:10.637-05:00One thing I think I learned during grief counseli...One thing I think I learned during grief counseling, is that it changes you. You are a changed person. The reason marriages fall apart after a traumatic loss is that you don't necessarily still love the person that your spouse has changed into.<br /><br />That being said, you know that you have changed and that you are not the same person you were 15 years ago. But he fell in love with Gaylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03379222013493709899noreply@blogger.com